Women who have an active interest in sex in our culture, are often derisively labelled as sluts, a term which stands in sharp contrast to the less derogatory term used for men, who are known as studs. This is a good indication as to how society treats people who fail to remain within sexual conventions; that they will earn scorn and derision. However, this is not necessarily the case in the swinging community. Women are not only in control, but have found that they have gained power on a whole new level. Surprisingly, very little research has been done on the characteristics of female swingers or their motivations for swinging nor its subsequent effects upon the marital relationship.
I decided to write this blog to tell my story.